This is what Uncle D just IMed me:
“H and I talked, and right now we are going through some stuff, and trying to avoid making any major decisions right now (about work, or moving or anything), so we don’t feel like right now is a good time to try and figure this out.”
I am shaking and crying as I type this. We will talk to him later tonight. I doubt our conversation will involve anything satisfying. Who knows why. But a ‘we can’t do it right now’ is tantamount to NO to me right now.
I seriously want to bury myself in a deep, deep hole. It is PPKD and The Wife all over again, except 10,000 times worse, and I didn’t think any donor situation could be worse than that.
But it is.