I simply do not know what I would do without your support. Each comment I get. Each one of you. I feel like I would really loose it if 1. I was not writing about this and 2. no one could relate. And even if you don’t relate, the fact that you understand and care, well, it really leaves me speechless.
And for those of you not commenting out of fear, or not knowing what to say…I invite you to. I love every comment I get, even when people disagree. So comment Away, one word or 19 paragraphs.
I love you gals. I still feel like shit, but I am really trying to trust this process. The Wife is entitled to a freak out, I just wish we knew better how to balance what we should discuss and not discuss. Maybe it would be easier if I knew nothing about it. But KD would have a hard time keeping it from S. and we keep asking him how she is.
I mean how would things be if S. had told KD about my crush process, while it was happening. They would have run screaming. But it was appropriate to tell him later.
Sometimes total honesty is really emeshment. I guess we are learning. Not only about friendship and honesty, but how our families will relate to one another during this process and really for the rest of our lives. Holy crap.